Best Opening Line For Out of Your League Women
Develop the confidence to introduce yourself to beautiful women.
Men are always asking us, "What's the best opening line - and how can you use it on women who seems out of your league?"
Here are the answers:
Question 1: "What's the best opening line?"
A. According to a University of Chicago study, the word "hi" is the best opening line there is, followed by "how do you like the band?" (but only if a band is, in fact, playing).
All the cutsie lines you've heard - "Is heaven missing a couple of angels? 'Cause I can see them bouncing around inside your blouse," - don't work any better, and usually work quite a bit worse.
Even if the cutsie line does work, you are still left with the same basic problem - "there's a human being in front of me, what do I say?
"Hi" works the best at getting you to that point.
Question 2: "But the woman I want to say hi to isn't anywhere near me - I'd have to go up to her. What should I do?"
A. Try the"goodbye introduction. "This is a cousin of the"goodbye compliment, "which we discuss in How to Succeed with Women.
Imagine you are at the gym, and you see a woman who is really attractive to you. But she's busy lifting weights, and it seems like your gym is not such a friendly place, anyway.
The opportunity is this: time your leaving the gym for when she is between sets, or stretching.
Then on your way out, introduce yourself like this (smile while you do it!):
"Hi, I'm just leaving, but before I do, I really wanted to introduce myself to the woman who has such wonderful form. My name is Ron."
She says something back, like "Oh hi, my name is Tracy," then you say something like "I hope to see you here again." Then you leave.
This creates an opening for you to talk to her next time you see her - "Hi Tracy, how are you?"
It also gives you a way of interacting with her for the first time without there being much risk - since you tell her up front you are leaving, she's less likely to be afraid of you wasting lots of her time.
It also builds your esteem, and teaches your nervous system that you can actually survive talking to beautiful women, which makes it more likely you'll do it again, and again, and again....
In time this can even help you develop the confidence to ask for her number in that situation, but for now, just take this small action, and watch your confidence soar.