Choose Your Wing Wisely
Learn To Approach If you are out approaching women with a friend who knows what he is doing you will have a very successful night, if you are out with friends who have no idea what they are doing, chances are you are going to be doing a lot of work with very little results. I was out the other night and saw this beautiful red haired girl, I went to the bar got a drink turned around and noticed this guy had just started talking to her. So I thought I would stand back and see what happened, personally I thought this guy was doing really well she was smiling and touching him on the shoulder and I thought to myself this guy knows what he is doing. As I have been doing this for a while I am pretty tuned in to body language, I noticed she looked at a group of two girls and gave the “I’m ok you don’t have to rescue me smile” to her friends, so her two friends stayed where they were keeping that watchful friend eye on her of course. Just a quick tip her if you are talking to a group of 3 girls and two of them leave you two too talk that is an excellent sign. About one minute later two of this guy’s friends came into the group , and then two more. Now the whole dynamics of the group have changed. One girl 5 guys, within 20 seconds her friends had come in as well to make sure everything was ok. Now this guy’s friends were “tools” who every time they opened there mouth something stupid came out to which they were throw high fives between each other, I am sure you have seen these kinds of guys around. What this guy had worked to build up in 20 minutes was all destroyed in about 1 minute by his “tool” friends. The attraction was gone and so was she. The worst part about it was his friends seemed happy about it, still thinking it was funny. Believe me, if these guys came in to a set I was in, I would burn them out very quickly. The moral here is if you are going out with friends who are only going to screw things up for you, may be it time to get another set of friends you can go out approaching women with or even head out by yourself.