Learn How To Approach Girls
The easier you feel talking to complete strangers the more confident you will feel approaching women. Being confident and finding it easy to speak to women that you approach is easy if you feel comfortable with the situation that you are in. Walking over and speaking to a girl is one thing but what you also need to remember is that most of the time you are walking over and speaking to a complete stranger. You have never spoken to this person before and have had very little or no contact with her either. This makes it harder to feel relaxed; it creates the negative feelings of thinking whether she will like you or not. As we know, being nervous and unconfident is a turn off to women. You need to learn to feel comfortable and relaxed in these situations. This will in turn portray confidence. There is a simple way to solve this problem. Learn to adjust and get used to speaking to people you have never spoken to before. In effect say "hello" to strangers more. Not just while your out dating but in your everyday life. The strange thing is, if you are out having (example) a coffee by yourself and there is a girl at the place you are by herself I bet you probably wouldn't go over and sit down beside her. Yeah neither would I? She may think you're some odd ball. It would feel too strange just walking over and sitting beside a girl you don't even know. This is what a lot of people think. It is wrong. It is called meeting people, to meet new people means that you do not know them. They are strangers. Most people find it easier meeting new people in a group; subconsciously they know they have the protection of the group of people they are with. It is not direct one-on-one contact. In dating you very rarely get this barrier, this fail safe option. When you meet and approach women you are usually on your own. If you are not used to approaching strangers and speaking to them then you feel a whole lot more nervous. Give it a shot. For the next week, when you are out talk to people you don't know. This can be passing by in the street and saying a quick "hello" while passing or sitting beside someone when you are out somewhere. You may be thinking "This won't help my dating." It will. The more you adjust and the easier you feel talking to people you have never met before the more comfortable and less nervous you will feel approaching women. It is like everything in life, get yourself used to any situation that you are put in and it seems easier. Dating is not about one thing that works. Dating involves many different factors and situations. Psychology plays a huge part in dating. It is not all about "When I meet a girl I don't know what to say" or "I feel nervous around women." The question you need to ask yourself is "Why this happens in these situations?" Give what I said a go and see how your dating progresses.