Make Her Wear Straps, Laces and Stiletto Heels
Teach your woman to glam herself on a regular basis, at least for in the bedroom. Girls who are sexy, act sexy, like sex, and are hot lovers, wear sexy clothes. In other words, sexy desirable girls glam themselves. So to get your woman into a new role or identity, you want to start glamming her. Go shoe shopping with her. Get her some sexy shoes with heels to go with her lingerie. The shoes must have heels, at least two or three inches. Heels are the best glam accessories you can get with your woman. In heels, a woman appears taller and her legs appear more shapely and slender. You can buy her stilettos if you want, which you can buy off the Internet. Another great glam accessory are rhinestone sparkling eyelashes. This is my secret tip, an absolute must. You can order rhinestone sparkling eyelashes at madamemadeline. com. Check out the brand Ardell. Your woman simply places these lashes on her eyelids and they adhere with a temporary adhesive. Glam lashes really bring a woman's eyes out and makes them instantly look glamorous. You want to get the kind that have the rhinestone sparkles, because they catch the light. And they're cheap too, less than $10 a pair. Now I know that not every woman wears make-up, and this is optional. But if a woman looks in the mirror and she looks a little glamorous, she'll better step into a sexual role. Whether your woman wears makeup or not, I suggest you pick up a copy of the book Making Faces. Tell your woman you're interested in learning makeup application and that you want to use her as a guinea pig. Use her already existing stash of makeup or if she doesn't have any makeup, go shopping with her. What better way to have fun and be playful with your woman. It shows her that you're interested in something that increases her social value just as if she was interested in one of your favorite hobbies. If both of you are really clueless, just go to an upscale department store and have one of the makeup clerks apply the makeup for her and ask the makeup clerk for tips. At a place like Macy's they have clerks who are paid just to stand there and apply makeup. Nails... guys, take your woman out to get her nails done. Again, if she knows she looks sexy, she'll act sexy. So get her a French manicure at a beauty salon. And while she's there, have her ask the manicurist for tips. Or better yet pick up the book A Complete Guide to Manicure and Pedicure by Leigh Toselli or The Encyclopedia of Nails by Jacqui Jefford or buy the supplies and surprise her by doing her nails yourself. As for hot outfits, life doesn't just end at Victoria's Secret. That's just the place to start. Once you have the first two or three lingerie outfits from your local lingerie shop, at least once every few months buy something wild and crazy, like a French Maid costume, or a Geisha girl costume. There's also a Harem girl, sexy angel, sexy nurse, and sexy secretary costumes. Just go to costumeuniverse. com, they have hundreds of outfits. Or go to lingerievenus. com for pvc and leather. But what's really fun is to go shopping physically with your woman and pick something out, so hunt down the fetish and sex stores in your local area. The point is to have fun shopping with your woman! Be a collector of sexy glamming accessories. And what happens when you teach your woman to glam herself on a regular basis, at least for in the bedroom? Glamming conveys outward sexuality. Glamming turns a woman, who might otherwise be your typical Plain Jane, into a walking sex magnet, in the same way that a woman who wear knee-high platform boots, makeup, highlighted hair, and a skintight outfit becomes the center of attention of any room that she walks into. Glamming conveys that she is a person who asserts her own reality. It shows she celebrates her own reality and doesn't crumble to other's judgments or social pressure. It shows she transcends the social constraints. Her social value skyrockets. She'll have more confidence. She'll have more sexual confidence. She'll be willing to do things more in line with her new identity. Once she wears tight, very sexy underwear with lots of straps and laces and stiletto heels right into bed, she can be as naughty as she likes and feel like the star of her own pornographic movie.