Sex with your boyfriend

Sex with your boyfriend

I'm a girl, i've had sex once. Me and my boyfriend decided to wait until we were ready and I think we're ready but being almost a virgin I have no idea what to do haha. Tips pleeeease?! Oh you’ll be fine sweety! :) Promise! Sex is one of those activities that even if you’ve never done it before, your body is programmed to genetically «know» how to do it properly! Since sex and procreation is essential to the human species survival, once you get aroused and get going, there’s something that kicks in and sorta helps you along. So just know that! As for the details, and mastering being good in bed, that takes time. A great deal of being good in bed is being confident, and being open with your partner. Confidence is hard to have your first or second go around, but do what you can to embrace your body and to be open to exploring with your partner. Don’t be afraid of who you are and what you look like—nothing is sexier to a guy than a girl who is NOT afraid to be naked and who obviously is comfortable in her own skin when nude. I’ve had so many complaints from men over the years about wives or girlfriends who wouldn’t get naked except in the dark and who hated their bodies! Nothing is more frustrating for a guy—obviously he likes what he sees, or he wouldn’t be having sex with you to begin with! So be confident, and be open to trying things with your man. Take things slow, and start off with foreplay—kissing, fondling boobies, rubbing bodies. No need to rush anything. Follow his leads, and watch and listen closely to his responses. This should tell you what his likes and dislikes are. If you’re at all confused, ask him. As for actual sex tips, here you go: blowjobs, take them slow! The mistake so many girls make is to do them too quickly. A blow job isn’t just bobbing up and down super quick and sucking on a dick. No sir! A blow job starts with a slow kissing trail from the neck to the penis, and then slow, soft kisses around the penis area (including balls and inner thighs). After that, move to the shaft and kiss it softly, working your way up to the tip. Rub the penis around your mouth without putting it in, and maybe blow gently along the tip. Tease him until he can’t take it anymore, then quickly slide the dick in until it’s down as far as you can take it. Let it sit there for a minute, and make good eye contact with him. Then slowly start sucking up and down, and when you get to the top, swirl your tongue around the head of his dick. Some men also like the feeling of putting your tongue in their dick hole, or putting your tongue hard against the back of their cock. This might be too advanced if he’s not had much sex, though. Keep going slowly up and down the dick, varying intensity, and if you get tired, you can always take a break and spit on his cock (which men love) while jerking him off, so you can catch your breath and rest your cheeks. Also, while sucking his dick, actually suck the air in your mouth out so there is suction, like your mouth is a suction cup around his penis. That feels wonderful for men! Feel free to play with the balls as well, either gently tickling their underside or the man’s taint, or gently pulling down on them. And when the guy is about to cum, if you gently pull the balls down it will make his orgasm last longer! :) And when you’re ready to make your man come, start sucking faster and harder and take the forefinger and thumb and put it at the base of his cock. Squeeze fairly hard and move up and down and around in rhythm to your mouth. That will make him come more quickly! As for sex, the biggest advice I can tell you is again, TO MAKE EYE CONTACT. Nothing is sexier for sex or blowjobs than eye contact with your partner. Hold it long and deep, don’t be afraid to lock eyes with the person you’re with. It may seem creepy to you, but it’s a turn on on so many levels. It shows that you’re emotionally present, that you’re as into sex with him (or her!) as they are into sex with you. Other than that, be sure you’re lubed up and wet enough before he enters you so that you don’t tear or irritate your vagina. There’s no shame in using lube, because sometimes it can be hard to get wet, although foreplay greatly helps that. And if he’s big, tell him to be slow and gentle! Since you’ve only had sex once before, you’re almost a virgin anyways, and he needs to go slowly with you since you won’t be as open as someone who’s had more sex. It might help to start on top so you can control how quickly he enters you. :) Also, a really good trick is this: once he’s inside you, do kegels! No lies, you can squeeze your vaginal muscles around his cock by flexing the same muscles you use when doing kegels and it feels AMAZING for your partner! He will never ever know how you’re doing that, but he will really like it AND it helps keep you tight at the same time! :) While having sex with him also keep in mind that not only penises and vaginas are involved in sex, there are other erogenous zones that can be stimulated at the same time! SO if you’re on top, reach back and tickle his balls with your hand. Or lean forward and gently stroke his nipples. Lay a hand by his ear and pull on it gently. Don’t forget these places! And for him, he can gently play with your clit or your nipples while fucking you as well, and that will increase the pleasure for you too! I wish you guys the best, and I hope you have AMAZING sex, and I hope these tips helped! :)

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